New Year No Resolutions…
As I am preparing to write this I do what I always do and took a little pit stop on social media.
I was hit in the face with frantic last minute Christmas posts and resolutions.
I will be up front about two things.
I still need to shop and I am not making any resolutions. Maybe that’s one in and of itself.
Here’s the thing.
Ok, a couple. I am absolutely lousy at keeping them. Resolutions.
I am already frantic, please don’t add to my stress. A task I may not complete. That’s stressful.
Also… sometimes resolutions feel targeted. New Year, New Me. What’s wrong with you right now?
Have you ever thought it’s not you?
A lot of times, I’m going to say at least for me. My year is bad because of things around me. The environment, things out of my control.
This was not a banner year for me. To say the least. From job loss. Loss of loved ones. Fractured friendships. A financial bomb.
But I still hope that each New Year is better. I always hope I grow. But at my core I should not be a new me.
Maybe fold my laundry right away so I have more time on Sunday to relax so I don’t feel so stressed come Monday morning.
Get every scrap of information before I make big decisions.
Focus on my humans. The ones who focus on me. Text, call…
Spend less time on social media. I really don’t need to know my cousin three times removed is into some of the things she’s into.
Take time for the little things. When is the last time you peeped a sunrise?
Sing loudly in my car.
Snuggle with my dog.
Buy the special creamer for my coffee.
These aren’t resolutions. These are things I like to do. I just maybe don’t do them enough.
A new year is a great time to remind yourself to do those things, but honestly Mommas why not all year?
My hope for you is a wonderful holiday and if 2019 wasn’t your year, that 2020 will be.
Much love Mommas.