Is It Toxic?

Is it toxic?

If you’ve been wearing rose colored glasses your whole life and you’ve grown accustomed to the view,  it can be tough to see that what’s right in front of you, is toxic.

If you’ve been living a life of justifications for certain behaviors and you are so ingrained in those reasons, it can be tough to see that what’s right in front of you, is toxic.

If you’ve listened to the negative stories that others have told you and you’ve believed that is the truth of who you are, it can be tough to see that what’s right in front of you, is toxic.

So where do you begin?  Can you decipher if someone is toxic for you or not?  Can you differentiate between a healthy relationship and an unhealthy one?  Can you see, hear, feel, know… when something is not okay for your life?

If you say No, No and No, to the above.  It is time to begin.  Start now.

You’ve got to get rid of the unworthy story you tell yourself, the belittling advice you believe, the negative behavior you accept.  You’ve got to rip off the old ways that keep you stuck in a world of unjust.  A world of no hope, no joy, no excitement for the beautiful woman that you are.

Can you stand in front of the mirror and tell yourself how beautiful & wonderful, how captivating & lovely you are?   As you say it…do you believe it?

That is a good place to start.

Change your glasses, create new behaviors and write a colorful story.

You will be amazed how fantastic it will feel to take the first step, to see that what is in front of you IS toxic, and that you CAN start a brand new journey down a brand new road with a life you haven’t dreamed of……yet.

 

xoxo,

Your God-girl

Tracy

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2 thoughts on “Is It Toxic?

  1. Tammy Paval

    This was the first thing that came up for me to read today, funny I’m at rock bottom. Your words hit me hard but I needed a good smack I suppose. I’ve ruin so many lives with my poor decision to stay in a toxic relationship. I can’t undo the damage I’ve caused and I have no idea where to begin to make amends. I’ve kicked him out, I’ve left yet somehow he’s still here. I recently lost almost everything again. I’m so lost. How do you change it

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    1. Tracy

      It is no accident that you read my blog. It is no accident that it has taken you this amount of time. rock bottom can be a beautiful place. BECAUSE you get to create yourself NEW. That is what I did when I was there. Start over. Hold yourself accountable, love yourself, treat yourself with grace. You cannot worry about the amends until you are in a solid, strong, victorious place. Start there. Make a list of words that describe a female you look up to. This is your list to read to yourself….whether you believe them yet or not Starting treating yourself with dignity and pride and respect. You’ve got this. And if you want to talk some more, email me onesister@verizon.net. xoxo Tracy

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