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Surviving High School

Hi teens!

Since starting high school, I have begun to think back at my previous ideas of what I thought it would be like to be a high schooler. Before actually being a high schooler, I had these strange ideas about it.  Most of these stereotypical ideas I picked up from TV shows and movies I watched while growing up. Because of my obsession with teen films as a kid, I expected to walk into high school and there be an instant sense of “drama”. I was expecting a school full cliques and I imagined myself not being able to fit into any of them. (Typical movie plot… I know).

I could picture some “mean girl” going out of her way to try and make others feel like they don’t belong, (the plot continues) and I often imagined that her target would be me.

Another shattered “stereotype” was that it would be a scene out of High School Musical. Obviously I didn’t expect students to burst into song at random moments of the day, but I did expect the “Troy” to my “Gabriela” to welcome me into school. (A girl can dream).

Last, but not least, I believed that I wouldn’t really be noticed. I thought making friends would be a challenge, and that the overall experience wouldn’t be all that great. Boy was I wrong! I have not yet experienced any sort of “drama” since starting high school and, honestly, I am quite relieved. The cliques don’t seem to exist, and everyone has been EXTREMELY kind.

Unfortunately, I have not yet found my Troy, but what can you do?

So far, my high school experience has been nothing short of wonderful!

My advice is to be social once you get there. Join clubs, take classes you wouldn’t usually take, and strive to be a good student and person.

Like with most other things in our lives, do not allow your pre-conceived ideas to impact your experience. I’m hoping that my high school years will be some of the best moments of my life.

So far, so good..
-Dani

The Truth Is…We Love You

The Truth is…We Love You

Dear Moms,

Being a teenager is difficult, or at least we think it is.

Some of us spend every moment of our lives stressing about our “responsibilities” and keeping up with popular trends. Others spend their time stressing about their follower count and how to be “in” with the cool crowd. Both are some of the countless things that we prioritize in life.

While all of this is going through our minds, we sometimes lose sight of what truly matters and the people who truly care about us. In these moments, we often push ourselves away because we feel that no adult could understand what we’re going through (because obviously they were never teens… right?). When we feel this way, we’ll say some things that we really regret afterwards. We yell, we argue, and we don’t listen. We become so blind sometimes, that we don’t acknowledge the effort and love that you put in to try and make us feel better.

What can I say? We are typical teens. Although it may not seem like it, we appreciate what you do for us. I want to tell each and every one you that we notice. We notice the small deeds you do to put smiles on our faces when we need it most. We notice the sacrifices you make, to make our problems seem insignificant. We notice you reaching out to try and bond with us. The reason behind our distance, is our stubbornness.

The truth is… we love you!

We love the way you have our back. We love the way you can’t help but want to protect us from any harm. We love the fact that you are always willing to listen. To all the moms reading this right now, I want to let you know that you are Wonder Women. On behalf of all the teens, we are extremely sorry for being such pains in the bottom.

The truth is… WE LOVE YOU!

-Dani