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Tell A New Story

Organize into a new story.

I can hear you now as you start to purge, declutter and organize your home…

”Oh but my son wore that when….    Oh but my daughter made that for me….  Oh but my mother, but my father, but my best friend, my teacher, me……”  or is it  “I got that at the fair… I won that for…. I bought that when…I made that….”

There goes the story you keep telling yourself about every THING you just can’t seem to part with.  It’s time to change the story.  Give it new meaning, give it a new ending, give it a new feeling, give it a new energy.

“Oh that was my grandmothers she’d be so upset if I got rid of it and…” “Oh that’s from when I was in kindergarten…” “I won that in a contest in junior high for…”

GENTLE REMINDER : If you part with the “thing” you’ll still have the memory in your heart & your mind.

Today….release what you can, keep what you MUST.  Begin to work through the barriers that keep you from being successful, that keep you from living fully and being prospering or barriers that simply keep you stuck.  Organize the piles, files and to-do lists.  Create new systems to keep things together. Begin a new habit of putting things where they go so you can find them when you need them.  Purge, declutter, organize one drawer at a time, one closet at a time, one file at a time.  Just be sure to begin.  Begin somewhere today so tomorrow has less stress less chaos, less drama, less burdens.  And for goodness sake when you hear the voice in your head go on and on about the What’s and Why’s and Who’s.  STOP!

Let it go. Free yourself. Stand strong & breath. Tell yourself a new story.

Your God Girl,

Tracy

You Hold The Memory

Do you ever wonder, how did you get so many of ‘these’? Whatever your THESE are. More than likely it’s because you bought them, they were gifted, handed down, or you won them for doing something great. Stop and ask-

“How many do I really need?”

Then decide how many to give away and begin the choosing.

I have 15 coffee mugs & 4 to-go mugs (mind you, I live alone), so I decided to get rid of 5 mugs and 1 to-go. That’s a good place to start, right? As I was going through them & deciding which ones to keep and which ones to pass on, I was noticing how much meaning I had put on each one. The emotional connection was strong for me…. to the person who gave it to me, or the vacation location I bought it at or how pretty it was. I found it a little rough to disconnect from the emotion (did I tell you I wear my heart on my sleeve and have a LOVE tattoo on my foot) because I feel.

Deep.

I reminded myself, this is just a token.  The real sentiment is in my memory, in my mind, in my heart and it’s time to downsize and simplify and the only way to do that is to let it go.

What meaning do you place on things that you have too many of?

How can you start to purge and unclutter the “too many’s”

Too many pairs of socks, panties, boots?

Too many spoons, cereal bowls, kitchen towels?

Too many scarves, vases, tea cups?

Whatever it is,take a look and begin to release some of them.  Give them away.  Donate them.  Hand them down.  Start small and remember that YOU hold the memory in you.

And proudly, happily, say to yourself “It’s time to let it go.”

 

Your God Girl,

Tracy xoxo

Organize Your Thoughts

Organize Your Thoughts

Make a list, Make a list, make a list. Did I say make a list? Yes.
Write down what you want to have happen, where is the chaos, what
needs decluttering, what space is overwhelming? Just start and keep
writing. Some.of the things on your list could be to ‘own a new car’,
‘clean out the junk drawer’, ‘buy a new perfume’. When you’re
organizing your thoughts, you just keep going…just write…it doesn’t
have to make sense…..buy a new bra ,clean out my garage,
organize the pantry, PB&J for lunch, sew the clothes that need
mending, give away the baby’s clothes. Your list could consist of
many different things. Things you want to see happen, change, fix,
have or purge…etc.

Then organize the list. Pick out what’s REALLY doable over the next
3-6 months. Then write the month next to each line item. Can you buy a
new car within the next 3-6 months? If not, take it off the list.
Keep going through the list identifying the month you can accomplish it.
Can you organize the pantry, get some sewing done, clean out the junk drawer?

Now take what you put into this month and decide what do you
want done this week? Schedule out your days. You have to start
somewhere and you have to start with a doable action. OK let’s pick the
pantry because every time you open it you’re reminded of how messy
it is and you can’t stand looking at it. So today organize the top shelf,
then tomorrow do the next shelf and the day after that, attack the
next shelf, until you’re done. Throw out expired food, stale chips,
crumpled crackers. Say goodbye to the things you don’t eat that are
taking up space. If you want to take on the WHOLE project, then empty
the whole thing and designate what foods are going where and put
them back in an orderly fashion, purging as you go. AND if for some
reason you don’t accomplish ‘it’ then put ‘it’ onto another day. Maybe
your GF called and she really needed you. Don’t beat yourself up.
Tomorrow you can do it. Whatever you do….. it starts with organizing your thoughts…
and then, organizing the space around you is easier to handle.
Good luck!

Peace & Blessings,

Tracy