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Hey Gorgeous, Let’s Talk The Truth

Hey Gorgeous!

Ya you.  I’m talking to you.

Hello gorgeous.

Do me a favor…no wait… do YOU a favor.

Repeat this sentence 5 times:  “”I am gorgeous. I am lovely.  I am amazing.””

Go ahead.   5 times.    Later you can do it in front of a mirror.

Every. Day.

Because you are.  THAT, my friend, is the truth about you.

TRUTH.

Now maybe somewhere along the way, you may have believed a lie.  A lie that someone said to cut you down, to make themselves feel better about their awful life, or maybe you endured some pretty tough bullying, or hate mail, or stalking or something that took you off Beauty Avenue, Glorious Street or Captivating Road.  Did you?

And where are you now?

Wherever you are and whatever road you’re on, it’s not a Dead End and it doesn’t say No Outlet anywhere.  It’s a road that connects to another road… to a different neighborhood, to a different town and to a different state. It’s a road with opportunities, blessings, new realities, rewritten stories. It’s the road you’re on right now, doing what you’re doing and if you keep walking and keep believing and keep digging deep into your soul to shine your brightest light, you will end up in a beautiful place.  As you tell yourself, Every Day, that you ARE beautiful and lovely and amazing, and you journey forward, around the culdesacs, through the barriers, down the hills and beyond the twisty turns, you will see what lies ahead.  You just have to keep going.

When you get tired and it’s too messy to see and everything seems to be stacked against you, remind yourself WHO YOU ARE.  The Truth of you.  The deep down, raw, babygirl truth.   Because when you come right down to it, that’s all that matters.

Add some more words of your own to your daily mantra.

Wonderful, Magnificent, Stunning, Delightful, Marvelous, Smart, Outgoing……whatever you can add about your Truth….add it proudly.

xoxo

Your God Girl

Tracy

 

Are You Lucky Or Are These Blessings?

Wow you just missed getting into an accident.  .…aren’t you lucky?

You’re running late and look at all the green lights. ……aren’t you lucky?

Can you believe YOU got promoted?  Ha!   ……aren’t you lucky?

You’re glad it wasn’t YOUR kid who got expelled. ……aren’t you lucky?

It has nothing to do with luck.  Really.  You know I’m a God-girl, right?  … They are called blessings.  AND… YOU are blessed.  You are richly blessed.  You could go so far as to say you are Divinely Blessed and those were Divine Appointments just for You.  God knows your heart, He has everything figured out before it even happens and you call it luck but they are Blessings.  It is His mercy and grace for you that life is good amidst the growing pains, the chaos, the mishaps.

When you stand in the space of abundance and the mindset of God’s goodness, you will notice blessings more and more.  Some you may not see at all because He’s saving you from something.

Imagine:  You’re waiting for a very important phone call as you’re walking along the sidewalk getting ready to cross the street & just as you’re about to step off the curb,the phone rings.  In the midst of your excitement,  that they are finally calling you back, you step back onto the sidewalk to have your conversation.  You are so engrossed in what you are hearing that you never noticed the car that flew by in that very instant, beating the red light.  Passing the exact spot, right there where you would have stepped into, had the phone not rung.

Sometimes we can’t see the blessings , because we are deterred into another direction.  Sometimes we don’t see the blessings because we can only focus on the bad.  Sometimes we don’t see the blessings because we think it’s our ‘good luck’.  But they are there.  Every. Day. From God.  For You.

Your God Girl,

Tracy

The Many Faces of Good-Bye

It takes an immense amount of courage to say good-bye to something that isn’t excellent. So many of us put up with circumstances, conditions and relationships that are not really working and there truly IS a time when it is appropriate to say good-bye so that healing can happen and new good can occur.
Yes, there is a time to stand up and fight for something, a time to make changes, a time to try new behaviors…all of that…however when enough time has passed and you feel that you have done all you can and you are still not seeing the result you require, it may just be time to say “good-bye”.
Saying good-bye to something isn’t “bad”, it isn’t “giving up”, it is having the wisdom to see that beating a dead horse is a fool hardy exercise…you exhaust yourself and the horse is still dead.
When you say good-bye you can do it with love, that is possible…you can do it with acknowledgement of contributions made, you can release and set something free with great gratitude and love and forgiveness for that things that didn’t turn out the way you wanted them to.
Granted most people say good-bye in anger or fear or guilt or some combination of those…it doesn’t need to be like that. Endings are also new beginnings where new blessings can show up, where new good can appear.
When you prune a tree it seems like a terrible thing, you cut living branches from it and it looks terrible for a while…then it starts to grow and fill out stronger than it ever was before…new life comes to it when before it looked almost dead and barren. Good-bye can be like that, it feels awful, it looks awful…times goes by and then new LIFE comes zooming in bringing with it new blessings we couldn’t see before.
So many people hang on to things that have been unworkable for so long…jobs, relationships, items, marriages etc…they hang on because they are scared to death to let go…letting GO is letting GOD…it is trusting something greater than yourself to take care of you and it is knowing that with every ending comes a new start for something not yet seen.
When appropriate have the courage to say good-bye, everything that you want could very well be on the other side of good-bye….