I just moved to Fort Wayne 7 months ago and I have so many wonderful friends today!
I have so many new friends in my life because I said yes. I said hello. I started a conversation. I smiled. I went to the meeting. I joined the Study. I accepted the invitation. I went alone. I walked through the door. You see…. I had decided before I moved here that I was going to make this a life worth living, I was going to meet women and I was going to enjoy my new home in this new place.
If you want to be a part of a larger circle of girlfriends, it will take you getting out of your fragile way, it will take you being bold and stepping out and it will take you creating something different. You will have to risk, you will have to research things happening near you and go alone, you will have to be in the mindset of positivity and possibility and love.
So, you say hi first. And maybe that’s all it is…. is a hello. This time. And maybe nothing comes from it. It goes no further than that. But, MAYBE, just maybe… a compliment about her cute sweater creates a coffee date. Maybe volunteering at the animal shelter turns into a friendship with someone you may never ever have met otherwise. Maybe going to a yoga class alone and chatting afterwards you end meeting your new bestie and especially when you open your mind to the fact that you and the woman across the street can’t wait to meet each other… you end up creating a friendship only the heart can explain.
So to create a larger circle of friends… yes…. it requires you to go places and do things and kindly say hello. You never know what could come next. It’s never ever too late in life to make new friends.
Your God girl