“Whether you say you can or can’t… you’re right.”
Have you ever heard that before?
The first time I heard it I thought “What on earth does that mean?”
But my knowing how powerful the mind is, I realized that THAT is what it was about. Our minds are so powerful. Things we say over and over again, in our minds, does indeed become What Is So.
So if you keep telling yourself you can…. then you can, You will OR at least you’ll give it 100%!
And…. If you keep telling yourself that you cannot…. Then you won’t. You’ll talk yourself out of it before you even attempt.
BUT…. YOU get to be right. Do you want to be right? Some people sell their souls to be right. It means more to them to be right than it does to be joyful or fulfilled or successful. Those “got-to-be-right” peeps… they’ll stay where they are, and maybe blame their upbringing or their lifestyle or their physical frailties. BUT all that… THAT’S a story. A story to stay complacent, stay stuck, stay period.
If you want to have something happen and you want to see what you’re made of and you want to believe in your heart that you can…. then do one thing. Just do one thing to work toward it. Say positive statements to yourself that will train your mind to know what it Can Do.
In the meantime…. Just do the next thing.
Your God Girl,
A dream with no direction or work is just a wish.. All my life I’ve been a dreamer, but at the age of 29 single with three kids I couldn’t just dream anymore, It was time for action. I decided a while ago I wanted to be a realtor. So I put my nose to the grindstone and did research on how to become licensed in my state. Being on a fixed income I had to find the most affordable without taking away from the educational experience. Real estate board are extremely difficult to pass so if I was going to invest in myself I needed to do it right.
After a couple of months of research and saving I found a small local school where the classes were only 250 a peice. Three classes span over three weeks, A lot of information in a short amount of time for a price I could kinda afford. I got this I would tell myself every morning before class to quell the fear and self doubt. You see This was a big step a big process for me. I was making one of my dreams real and tangible. Which ment it was no longer protected and safe in my dream world… It could fail, I could fail. Reading myself affirmations every morning and simply telling myself I could do helped me push through all the obstacles I faced over the three weeks; I became extremely sick my second week, I refused to miss a day. the third and final week my car broke down, so I took the money I saved for my start up costs and repair my vehicle and then door dashed while I finished my classes to make up the money.
After all of that hard work I passed both of my exams, on my first try! I was so proud of myself. I quickly Joined a Brokerage, possibly too quickly. I became frustrated and felt uncomfortable in the office that I choose. After almost of two months of what felt like beating against a brick wall I switched brokers. I switched to a Team with Remax results and I am just starting to get back into the swing of things. I feel more comfortable here and I am excited to continue my journey as a Realtor.
Until next time..
Always be unapologetically true to yourself,
“Write something that someone told you about yourself that you never forgot.”
Day 2 of the 30 Day Writing Challenge:
I have been told plenty of things by others about myself, most of them transparent and generic. Kind words but probably not genuine. The things you’re suppose to say in certain situations. I am guilty of doing that as well.
There is one person in particular who has always told me that he believes in me. I am a vocal, independent woman who has had some made for tv moments and years in my life. I have been beaten down, broken, spiteful, bitter and angry. I have huge shoulders and carry a lot of personal weight and responsibility for others in my life and sometimes I just need a turn and need the support of someone too. He often tells me he believes in me and that is just enough to get me back where I need to be. I believe him, I know he does, and I also know that If I fail or fall he will still believe in me. He believes in the person that I am and the person that I strive to be. He is genuine and shows it daily. He is not generic and transparent and he proves this every day. And the reason I believe him is because he is here with me through every good and bad moments of mine, accepts that those moments are his too and we share the excitement, pain, sadness, and joy together. He believes in me and I believe in him. I will never forget. His constant belief in me has helped me believe in myself.
Love to All-Kim
“Self-confidence is an essential quality for all worthwhile accomplishments.” – Napoleon Hill
If you don’t believe in yourself then how can you expect anyone else to believe in you? No matter what has happened, you must have Faith in your ability to accomplish whatever you want. Often it is easier to believe in other people, especially when things look dark and difficult–it is during these times that you MUST manufacture confidence in yourself and in your ability to create and take action. When I say, repeatedly, that nothing is impossible– I absolutely mean that NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE. The first step to making the seemingly impossible, possible is to have certainty and confidence that you have whatever it takes to move mountains. Most people do not succeed because they do not believe they can have or deserve success.
Enthusiasm goes hand-in-hand with self-confidence. Being self-confident and expressing enthusiasm about what you are doing naturally attracts support and goodwill. People want to be around people that are confident and happy because it makes them feel better about themselves.
When you are going through difficult times and starting to doubt yourself, call on the people that know you the best (your lifers) to remind you that you have what it takes to turn the tide. Their FAITH in you will give you something to stand on and it will help you remember who you are. From that renewed perspective you will be able to MOVE YOUR MOUNTAINS and produce results.