If you’re on a mission to be a better mom, you may already know a lot about transforming your thoughts, changing your mindset and healing the broken parts. But did you also know that when you are full up in love with YOU, there is never a need to defend yourself?
Yup! That’s right.
Sit with that thought for a minute.
Then think about the places in you, where you currently defend yourself. Think about the places where you’re triggered to argue back or where you shrink down & say nothing but are screaming on the inside.
Those are the places that still need healing, forgiveness, and most of all LOVE. Because when you love you, I mean allllll of you. The good, the bad AND the ugly….. you will not have a need to defend. All your weaknesses, all your scars, all your mistakes. All your shortcomings, all your ridiculousness, all your wrongs. All of it! LOVE them.
AND claim a new story while you’re at it. Change the adjectives you’re using. Look in the mirror and remind yourself you are beautiful. You are wonderful. You are 100% amazing from head to toe.
Think of the places where you may feel threatened by someone else’s words. And know ‘a sense of threat is an acknowledgement of an inherent weakness’. Yup! If you are threatened… you are agreeing with their words. Do you know your truth? Do you love all of you? Do you accept every inch? Then whose words of attack could alter you? Nobody’s!
Remember ‘defense stems from fear, not love.’
Today start a new habit of acknowledging what is great about you and write it down. The next day add another thing to the list. And the next day, another. Eventually you will be so flooded by your own greatness that nobody can say anything that would cause you to defend.