You want me to ‘Forgive’ after what they’ve done to me? YES.
After all they said? YES.
After all she did? YES.
After how mean he was? YES.
After all their lies? YES. YES. YES.
That’s right. Do it.
- We all make mistakes
- They just don’t know any better
- A big wrong is the same as a little wrong
- You don’t write other peoples rules
- You are not that special
So. Now with that in mind. Think of a time when you were wrong. You yelled at your kid, you blamed somebody for something, you backed up instead of going forward & hit a car, you said something you shouldn’t have said, yadda yadda yadda. Were you forgiven?
Oh wait…. You’ll justify all your wrongs. You have reasons all lined up to back you up. You even have people who agree with you, who you’re going to turn to for that justification. YET you’re ready to condemn them. With no justification. The ones who did YOU wrong, hurt you, ignored you. Them. The ones you are to forgive. You’re ready to throw them into the fire. And you have no interest in their stories or apologies. It was bad in your eyes and you must walk away. OK. Forgive them.
When you forgive someone, it doesn’t mean you invite them over for tea, it doesn’t mean what they did was ok. When you forgive someone, it is for you. It is for your freedom. For your soul growth & your sanity. When you forgive them, they no longer have a hold on you, they no longer have space in your head and they no longer cause you any upset.
When you don’t….. upset, resentment and blame build up in YOU. Your heart is the one that hurts. Your soul is the one that is thwarted. Your life is the one that is impacted.
Is it time to forgive someone?
Find peace as you release.
Your God girl