When you are a single mother, most of the time you are fearful that you won’t be able to make ends meet. Trying to hail mary a check at the grocery because your pantry is empty. I have been there so many times. We are constantly reminded, “the struggle is real”.
Lucky enough, I was able to find a job at a local trauma hospital. Watch out local market, here we come!
I saw things that will not settle in my psyche for a long time. Along with severe accidents, there were things that were amusing. A nice balance of good and bad.
Over time, I was able to somewhat shield myself from the chaos. After this, I realized that I was going to be given a huge life lesson.
Originally, I thought I was not able to feel compassion for others. I was too involved in my own life to pay attention. It was then that my heart opened up and my lessons were about to be learned.
Most of the reps would take the easy cases. They would shy away from the others. Since I had a job to do, I took the ones that they didn’t want. Compassion 101.
While a family was waiting for their person, I checked and offered what could be done to make them comfortable. Tissues? Ice water? A warm blanket? It was only 2 minutes of my time. Later in the night, they had thanked me for being so sweet.
I took the unruly kids to the snack drawer and loaded them with treats. They were thrilled!
Eventually,I scouted out the patient’s that needed kind words or special treats. It was my lesson because I began to see the blessings of kindness. My little ole heart had started to open. Indeed, not everyone was a jerk.
Compassion and kindness are free. Most people appreciate small gestures. Take the time to smile. Practice, practice, practice. Go thru the lesson to get the reward. At the end of the day, embrace your blessing. You won’t be disappointed.
Striving for exceptional – Tristen Ahlsey